Marriage is a big step in anyone’s life and both of you are probably feeling nervous and questioning the decisions that you have made. Before you run for the hills why not arrange some time alone together and chat about your decisions, the reasons you want to get married and the times you have had together and your plans for the future.
If you find no real reason to worry then rather than stressing about your nerves settle into enjoying the planning of your wedding. Know that this is your special day as well, often grooms tend to take a back seat. You may be pleasantly surprised when she is more than happy to go over the wedding details with you. You can offer to help choose the Flowers, use your own special skills to add your ideas to the day. She may not like all of them but that is okay.
Use this time for yourself as well, join the Gym or start working out if you have slacked off recently, go to the Spa get a massage and a afternoon of pampering, facial, pedicure, manicure, who says these things are only for women.
Buy some new threads, how about a session with a wardrobe planner or a chat with one of the local couture’s for advice on what suits you. All these thing and of course a lot of R& R and some visits with your friends for much needed laughter will all help you in getting through your wedding nerves and ensure that you can enjoy your day as much as you deserve.
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