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As with the other African cultures the traditions are not unalike, the Xhosa bride is required to show reluctance and sadness during her wedding, for she is leaving.

Traditional Zulu Wedding clothing included a beaded leather pouch which was used for carrying gifts or personal items.

The Ndebele wedding is celebrated in three stages, this can take several years. The first stage is Labola for the bride; this is paid in instalments of both money and livestock. The second stage is a two-week sequestration of the bride during which time other women teach the bride how to be a good wife and the third stage is completed when the bride has her first child.

Let me introduce you to Shangaan Wedding traditions and Shangaan people, with whom I have worked closely over years spent in the Lowveld.

After the bloody defeat of the Ndwandwe clan by Shaka

Traditional Italian weddings and marriages were arranged by the families of the bride and groom. Once the families were in accord, the engagement was announced.

The wedding is one of the most important family celebrations. These short moments of joy in the difficult life of peasantry follow many traditional customs before young couple exchange the wedding rings. First, the engagement period Zareczyny or Zrekowiny. The main event on the night of engagement was the tying together of the hands of the couple to be married. There were numerous variations on this custom, but in whatever form it appeared, the central elements were an uncut loaf of bread and a white towel or scarf. Because engagement was as binding as the marriage itself, it was always done in a public act in front of family and friends who acted as witnesses. Starosta (an intermediary) joined the right hands of the couple above the bread, tied them together with white cloth, and made the sign of the cross over their joined hands representing “the joined endeavors of the man and woman to prepare the bread

Weddings are big affairs in Spain and you’re likely to find the whole extended family and entire village turns out to celebrate (expect at least 200 guests at traditional ‘bodas’). Some of the customs are similar, such as throwing rice, but others are less familiar.